Warning: This Post Might Result In Some Strategic Thinking

on September 27th, 2011

Posted By Kurt Johnston

I mentioned in a recent blog post how much Imenjoyed the movie Money Ball. Well, over at his blog D.Scott Miller takes the main them of the movie (re-defining the skills needed by players to build a winning team)and applies it to youth ministry. It is a GREAT post! You don’t need to have seen the movie to benefit from his thinking. Here’s your assignment: go read his post, and think about these questions:

1. Do you agree with his assessment of the 5 basic skills He described that are currently needed by youth workers?

2. Do these skills change from context to context? Do they change for those of us who work with junior highers?

3. Do you think the 5 new skills he described are the skills for the future? Again, how do they change from context to context and in different age groups?

Random Randomness

on September 27th, 2011

Posted By Kurt Johnston

1. We don’t Do it often, but this past weekend we made a broad, church-wide appeal for new small group leaders. We had an insert in the bulletin, Pastor Rick mentioned it at the beginning of service, and I got to mention it at the end. The reason is because with our small groups starting in a week, we have a record breaking number of students signed up, but less leaders than normal. That math doesn’t add up! The result: over 50 adults stepped up and expressed an interest! Now we need to meet them, interview them, and perform background checks. This entire process will likely thin out the crowd by at least 1/2.

2. Saw the movie, Money Ball over the weekend. One of the better sports(ish) movies I have seen in a while.

3. Dear Denver Broncos: You are now 1-2. I know Tim Tebow is your third string QB, but start him NOW. Play him for two games and you will be able to tell if he has any future potential. If it turns out he doesn’t, we fans will gladly support shelving the guy. At 1-2, and Kyle Orton as our starter, the season is almost lost already. Try something new and bold before it gets further out of hand.

4. In a few weeks, we will start filming THE CHALLENGE, a new a new JH game resource. I am super excited about some of the hilarious challenges we have planned, [...]

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No Wonder I’m So Happy!

on September 22nd, 2011

Posted by Kurt Johnston

Below is a list of the the list of the “5 happiest jobs” based on data collected via the General Social Survey of the National Organization for Research at the University of Chicago, and reported in the Christian Science Monitor (They list the top 10, but I’ve only listed the top 5):

1. Clergy

2. Firefighters

3. Physical therapists

4. Authors

5. Special education teachers

No wonder I’m so happy!  I spend a ton of my time in THREE of the top 5 happy job categories.

Clergy:  I have been a pastor since 1988 and totally understand why it ranks #1.

Author:  Between writing small group curriculum, lessons, training material etc. for my own ministry setting and the somewhat frequent outside writing opportunities, I spend a fair amount of time as an “author” of sorts.

Special Education Teacher:  I work with junior highers….and I’m sure the similarities between my roles and those of a special ed. teacher are many!

(HT to Tony Jones)

Fretting Over Friday

on September 21st, 2011

Posted by Kurt Johnston

On Friday night, I am speaking to a group of about 100 denominational youth pastors. When I asked the organizer of the event what he would like me to talk about, he gave me an answer that I’m sure was meant to free me up….to give me tons of options…to avoid putting me in a box.  But, frankly, his answer has served to mess with my mind this week as I try to prepare.  “Speak to us about how to reach today’s teenagers” was his reply.  Simple enough, right?  Maybe for you!

On one hand I get it….all of us want to know how best to reach today’s teenagers. Afterall, that’s what we are in the business of doing, right?  Great topic. One everybody will be interested in!

But on the other hand….the topic is begging for a “silver bullet” answer; a formula that, if followed, will result in these youth groups reaching more of today’s teens than ever before. I’m a pragmatist (to a fault many times), and formulas often make sense to me. I like “three steps to a healthy marriage” (as if there are only THREE), and “The Keys to Financial Freedom”.  Formulas, step-by-step strategies and the like usually make sense to me.  So a “How to” topic would seem to be right up my alley.

But not this time.  The subject matter is too important, the ramifications too high to try to boil it down to a formula, or a set of keys, or a few [...]

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TODAY: Great Deal On A Great Book!

on September 20th, 2011

Posted by Kurt Johnston

I have a confession to make: In every church I have ministered in as the junior high pastor, I have had a FANTASTIC relationship with my Sr. Pastor.  Seriously, I’ve never felt unsupported, disconnected, or like I had to convince my Sr. Pastor that what I was paid to do was important.

Sadly, I know that isn’t the case for many, many, many of my youth worker brothers and sisters.  That’s why I’m super excited about the book, “The Disconnect…bridging the youth pastor/senior pastor gap”.

If you are struggling in your relationship with your Sr. Pastor….and if your Sr. Pastor is strugging with his/her relationship with you, this book is a must read!  And, if you are blessed enough to have no need for such a book, then buy a copy and keep it as a ready gift for someone whose path you cross that would benefit from it.

Click HERE for more details about the book, and for a fantastic price!

Today I was a New Volunteer

on September 17th, 2011

Posted by Scott Rubin

So I’ve been getting the emails from my son’s 7th grade football league, begging for parents to come help set up the fields on game days. (Can I mention that this “serving opportunity” is at 6am on Saturdays?!)

I decided to go help out – partially to remember what it feels like to be the 1st-time volunteer … who has no idea what he’s getting himself into. It was SUCH a reminder of what people might be feeling when they show up to serve in our ministries. Here are a few observations from this morning:

- New volunteers have no idea what to really expect… and don’t want to look dumb! Even though the email I got had some details for me, I still had this feeling of “uncertainty” as I walked up. I figured that everyone else there knew what they were doing, and I just didn’t want to feel awkward. (I can manage that part without anyone’s help. :)

- Don’t skip the coffee! Sure, I know they were just trying to “lure me in” with free coffee. But when I showed up not knowing exactly what to do & they said “grab a cup of coffee”, I thought to myself, “OK, I know how to do that.” The other thing that provided was a couple minutes of small talk, which helps people feel like someone actually cares about them (and that they’re more than just free labor!).

- People want to make a [...]

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Random Randomness (but all related to my last three days)

on September 16th, 2011

Posted By Kurt Johnston

I spent the last three days with a group of 100 incredible youth workers. They were gathered together to help begin dreaming about the next Simply Youth Ministry Conference.

And while the purpose of the gathering was to talk about the conference, it was not surprising that most of the conversation and quality time together had nothing to do with conference stuff. A few random highlights and observations from the past three days:

- these days there is lots of talk in some circles about things like “A painful disruption” in youth ministry. And while I agree on most levels with my good friend, Marko….I also think much of the yet-
to-be-defined change needed is already in place in youth groups all over the place. The men and women I spent three days with are bending the rules, breaking the rules, and creating new rules!

Yes youth ministry needs some painful disruptions, and here is one idea: instead of youth workers in small to average sized churches trying to become more like the large youth ministries….perhaps the large youth ministries need to become more like the small and average sized churches. Perhaps (and this may be a painful disruption) we need to somehow “flip” where the major voices of influence come from?

- youth workers are a family. The hot new word right now is “tribe”, but I’m gonna stick with the picture of family. What I experienced the past three days was a true [...]

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Simple “Do’s & Don’t’s” about Meeting Middle Schoolers

on September 14th, 2011

Posted by Scott Rubin

The Fall is a great time for new visitors in jr. high ministry. We all need to be on the lookout for students who’ve never set foot in our doors (or else they might never set foot in them again!).

Every other week before students arrive, we do a “training meeting”; giving volunteers something really practical to think about, to help them serve students best as they point middle schoolers towards Jesus.

This past weekend, we talked about “meeting new students”. (whether the student is the one who’s new … or the leader is!)

A couple simple “do’s & don’ts”…
- DON’T extend your hand for a handshake!
Middle schoolers don’t shake hands with each other. What you’re telling them in that moment is “I’m kinda old, and old people shake hands.” High five or fist bump is still great … but don’t be offended if they leave you hanging. They might just be nervous.

- DON’T guess what grade they’re in!
When you see a very tall middle school girl, and innocently say “Are you in 8th grade?”, you run the risk of having her think “No… I’m a giant 6th grader, self-conscious about being 8 inches taller than all my friends. I wish you wouldn’t have brought it up!” Or when you see a short boy, and say “Hey man, are you a 6th grader?”, he may think “NO! I’m a shrimpy 8th grader, whose hormones haven’t kicked in as quickly as my buddies’ have…. Thanks for reminding me!”

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A Creed For Young Teens

on September 10th, 2011

Posted By Kurt Johnston

As we all know young teens, especially boys, have fairly limited attention spans…add to that the new reality that they have been raised in a sound bite/facebook status update/twitter culture where so much of their information comes at them in bite-sized pieces.

Because of this, I have wanted to create a simple little “creed” that they can easily remember that, in my opinion holds the keys to success in life.

The early generation had coach John Woodens “pyramid of success” (have you seen the complexity of that thing?). I now offer my modern day, Tweet-sized alternative.

1. LOVE JESUS
2. WORK YOUR BUTT OFF
3. TREAT OTHERS WELL

I’m no John Wooden, but I think this sums up the three biggest traits the kids in our ministries need to pursue as they enter their teenage years….shoot, it’s probably stuff we ALL need to pursue!

Concerning Small Groups…some things worth considering

on September 9th, 2011

Posted By Kurt Johnston

If, like so many JH ministries, you have some sort of small groups kicking off this fall, here are a few things worth considering:

- consider making them highly experiential and interactive in nature: Small groups provide a unique opportunity for the learning to be more hands-on, interactive and experiential…..which all of us know make it more effective.

-consider making the experience as important as the curriculum: This fits well with the above thought. But what if plowing through the bible study wasn’t them primary goal? What if creating an overall experience that was memorable, stretching, and encouraging was the focus?

- consider letting each group “run at it’s own pace”: No two small groups are the same….so don’t expect them all to look the same, feel the same, and progress at the same pace. what if you train your leaders to feel confident gauging the pulse of their group, and customizing it accordingly?

-consider knowing the purpose of your small group program: some of my above considerations are informed by a specific s strategy for our small groups. As you consider these ideas,and a whole bunch of others that come your way, it is helpful to have settled a basic small group strategy to help guide you as you think about stuff.

What are some things you have considered concerning small groups?