Junior Highers and Materialism

Kurt on November 28th, 2007

According to this article, there is a direct link between materialism and self-esteem in adolescents. It introduces an interesting new twist in how we might approach the issue of materialism with junior highers.
(S.O. to Ypulse)

My Late Night Fix

Kurt on November 27th, 2007


I have to come clean. I have officially become a Stephen Colbert fan. The Colbert Report is, in my opinion, one of the best written shows to come along in a long time. It takes what John Stewart started and improves on it.
Not as subtle as Stewart, but funnier.

Halo Boys

Kurt on November 25th, 2007

A couple of days ago, Marko posted about this photo essay of boys playing Halo. The passive, tranquil looks on their faces portray a strong sense of calm even though they are playing an intense game. Click on the link, look at their faces and then come back here and scroll down. My daughter took a picture of me playing the same game.

Very Thankful

Kurt on November 21st, 2007

“Every good and perfect gift is from above…”
James 1:17

Thank you, Father, for the gifts you have given me….they are too numerous to list.

Huh?

Kurt on November 20th, 2007

On several different occasions recently I’ve been told I look like one of these three people: Bruce Willis, Vin Diesel, Jason Kidd.

Other than my rugged good looks, my incredible build and my athletic skills I don’t see the resemblance.
Please forgive my inability to place pictures and text properly!

Weekend Wrap Up

Kurt on November 19th, 2007

Lesson Topic: Week Five of our Series: What’s The Point? (40 days of Purpose)
Attendance: Way below average
‘Fun Factor’: Average
Volunteer Involvement: Above Average
Music: Above Average
Lesson Quality: Above Average
Length of Lesson: 8 mins
Student Response: Above Average

Since this weekend was on the topic of discovering your ministry, we decided to have a shorter than usual lesson and a shorter than usual program in order to dismiss early for a junior high ministry fair. It was really fun. We had a carnival-like atomosphere set up outside our meeting space with 8 or 9 ministry team booths. Students got to mingle around and check out the various opportunites to serve within our ministry. The lesson was a pre-recorded, 8 minute lesson, on the various parts of the body of Christ.

All in all it was a really good weekend.

Random Randomness

Kurt on November 15th, 2007

- I’ve had my Xbox 360 for about two weeks and it’s already down. The ‘red circle of death’ came knocking a couple nights ago. Time to send it to Microsoft and wait and wait and wait.

- My favorite new show of the season is Cane (Tuesdays on CBS).

- I’m tired of teaching live on the weekends every week so this week we stole a page from our High School ministry and filming the lesson in my kitchen to shake things up a bit.

- My definition of Leadership is constantly changing. Does one definition always work?

- We’re having a little junior high ministry fair this weekend and creating our own cheesy petting zoo as part of the theme. Rabbits, puppies, snakes, a tarantula etc.

- The best new idea we’ve added to our program recently is something we call ‘Wildside On Location’. Our goal is to be on location at a different school every Friday or so with some smiling faces, a cooler full of drinks and some promo about our ministry. We set up shop at the busiest area and hang out with kids on their way home from school. So far, the response from students has been really positive.

- My kids get the entire Thanksgiving week off school. Looking forward to taking a couple days off to spend some family time together.

Pot Shots At Those On Top

Kurt on November 14th, 2007

Yesterday as we were leaving my office my 10-year-old son said, “Dad, I’ve decided I don’t want to be famous”. I found it hilarious that in his mind he was destined to fame until he decided he didn’t want it. When I asked him why he had decided not to be famous he had an interesting response. “Because when you’re famous everybody sits around waiting for you to make a mistake and then they gossip to each other about it.”

Then this morning I came across this article listing the least sanitary CEOs. I’m fascinated by the way our society builds people up and sets them on a podium and then quickly looks for ways to take pot shots at them. It’s a weird mix of admiration and envy.

It reminds me of the various conversations I’ve heard (and been a part of) when Christian leaders fall. A weird mix of admiration and envy, I think.

Weekend Wrap Up

Kurt on November 12th, 2007

Lesson Topic: Week Four of our Series: What’s The Point? (40 days of Purpose)
‘Fun Factor’: Average
Volunteer Involvement: Below Average
Music: Above Average
Lesson Quality: Above Average
Length of Lesson: 23 mins
Student Response: Average

It’s week four of our six week ‘What’s the Point?’ series. It’s part of the church-wide 40 days of purpose campaign that is going well but our ministry is beginning to feel the strain of a long series. We’ve got some fun stuff planned for the final two weeks so we should be able to finish strong.

Music this week was great. Other than an adult playing guitar in the background, it was entirely led by students which is always neat.

A Blast From The Past

Kurt on November 9th, 2007


In the current issue of YouthWorker Journal, there is a short interview with David Elkind who, while I was in college, was responsible for some of my early exposure to adolescent development, and the struggles young teens face in our culture.

His book, All Grown Up and No Place to Go, was required reading for one of my classes. Originally published in the mid 80′s (It’s been updated since then), this book served as a catalyst for my understanding of the importance of ministry to younger teens.
I think it remains required reading for youth workers.