Posted By Kurt Johnston
I am admittedly grumpy this morning. I will cast some of the blame on a summer that has been incredibly busy and disjointed….both personally and professionally. None of the following rants come after spending time in prayer, and very few are feelings or thoughts that I want to be held accountable for at a future date. But because I am grumpy today, I have somehow managed to waste much of my morning thinking about things that currently increase my “Grump Index”. such as:
- church and ministry influencers who say things like, “there is more than one way” or “this will need to be contextualized”, yet are actually proponents of doing it ONE way in virtually EVERY context.
- Media outlets (whether liberal or conservative) who try to mask their bias under the banner of journalism….or worse yet, don’t even try and just assume we are too stupid to see through it.
- The refusal by most of the older generation to begin to hand over even a litle power and influence to the younger generation. Dave Gibbons once said that the key to long-term church health and growth is “when the older generation sets aside their preferences for the sake of the next.” I asked him how often this happens, and he said very, very rarely.
- Complainers. I know, it is a bit ironic for this to be on my list. But seriously…folks who are marked by cynicism, sarcasm and complaining drain the life out of me.
- Figuring out how to, and how much we even should, contribute to our kid’s college education. Until very, very recently, like most youth Pastors, I suppose, saving for college wasn’t a realistic option. So now with our daughter a year away, we are in full blown “what the heck do we do….how do we do it….and to what extent?” mode. The whole conversation leaves me feeling grumpy.
- Hidden agendas. Just tell me what you are thinking. If you need something, ask. If I upset you, let me know. If you have a different idea, share it.
- The pressure put on so many teenagers….mostly by their well-meaning parents…to perform.
- Grumpy old men in coffee shops who spend their time lamenting all that is wrong in the world. Oh, wait…..never mind.