Weekend Wrap Up

Kurt on January 14th, 2008

Lesson Topic: Week Two of our Series: It’s Okay To Be Short
Attendance: Above Average
‘Fun Factor’: Average
Volunteer Involvement: Average
Music: Above Average
Lesson Quality: Above Average
Length of Lesson: 24 mins
Student Response: Average

We had a good weekend with a few fun elements. Matt Hall who just happens to be our shortest jr. high team member taught the final weekend of ‘It’s Okay to Be Short’ and did a great job. Instead of just a band, we had an entire jr. high choir (something we do about every 6 weeks or so).

Lately we’ve been having a ton of first-time visitors which has been exciting to see. I’m constantly surprised by who brings friends. It’s usually not the super popular core kids but the average attenders who are involved but not overly. My hunch is that our core kids are the students who have the most ‘churched’ friends and aren’t rubbing shoulders with non-believers as much as other students are….something we need to change!

A Favor and An Opportunity!

Kurt on January 11th, 2008

First, the favor:
I mentioned earlier that Simply Junior High is putting together it’s first-ever junior high resource catalog. They would LOVE some shots of jr. highers playing guitar hero…which I can’t seem to provide. If you have any, would you be willing to email them to Natalie@simplyyouthministry.com

Now, the opportunity:
Group Publishing is getting ready to release a subscription based newsletter for junior high workers, which I think is fantastic. It’s a short, 10-12 page monthly print piece. They are looking for contributors to write articles and such. I don’t know how to attach a document to my blog (is that even possible?), so I’m just gonna post the information below that Group asked me to pass to folks like you.

We need your help!

We’re creating a brand-new junior high newsletter, and we’d love to add your great ideas. We’re looking for games, discussion starters, Bible studies, retreat ideas, service ideas, outreach ideas, small group ideas—whatever has worked for you in your ministry to junior highers. We only want ideas that are specific to the junior high age group.

We’re also looking for longer pieces that deal with building your volunteer team and partnering with parents—these can be as long as 400 words.

So send your ideas to sfirestone@group.com, put “Junior High Newsletter” in the subject line, and if we use it we’ll pay you $50 for the short ideas and $150 for the longer pieces.

Radioactive Homer

Kurt on January 10th, 2008


On Tuesday, a bunch of the junior high and high school staff went to lunch together. A few of us happened to notice that the Claw Game appeared to have a Homer Simpson doll in some sort of funky radioactive get up, and that it was easy pickins‘….or so we thought.

Once we got started, we refused to quit until we had him in our hot little hands. I’m sure it ended up being the most expensive Radioactive Homer doll ever purchased.

First Impressions

Kurt on January 9th, 2008

If the studies are correct, that people make their minds up within the first 2-90 seconds, youth ministries have a whole lot of ‘first impression’ opportunities. The studies also indicate that once somebody forms an opinion, for good or for bad, based on those few initial seconds, they are unlikely to change their mind. WOW!

A few first impression opportunities in a typical junior high ministry:
- A visitor walks into your meeting room.
- A parent shows up to a parent meeting (wouldn’t that be nice!).
- You make an appearance on a public school campus.
- Your ministry’s website.
- Promotion Sunday

There are countless others. I’d be interested to hear what you think the top 3 ‘first impression’ opportunities might be.

Small Group Tid-bit

Kurt on January 8th, 2008

Last night we had a 90 minute gathering with our small group leaders to touch base. Since we are nearing the half-way point of our small group season, it felt like a good time to remind them of a couple of basics concerning the lesson time in their groups. I shared three super basic reminders:

1) Remember, the lesson time is about them, not you.
Peer pressure, wise choices, honoring mom and dad etc. are topics I’ve taught dozens and dozens of times as a junior high pastor. To be honest, I’m sick of teaching this kind of stuff but it’s NOT ABOUT ME! Small group isn’t the time to take what you’ve been chewing on in your own spiritual journey and try to turn it into a junior high lesson.

2) Experiential learning is the best kind of learning.
Studies indicate that people retain about 60-70% more information when it involves some sort of hands-on, experiential learning. Avoid the temptation to simply lecture your small group for 30 minutes.

3) Mix it up!
Don’t do the same stuff over and over again. utilize a wide variety of experiential learning opportunities. If your students absolutely love something, don’t over-use it or else it will become old and ineffective. A ‘Field Trip’ lesson is amazing until you start doing field trips every week….then they lose their luster.

Movies

Kurt on January 7th, 2008

A quick review of three movies I’ve recently seen:

I Am Legend (Rated PG13).
Quick Thought: Pretty much the usual Wil Smith fare
Best Scene: The line of light slowly disappearing while the dogs wait to attack.
Review: Thumbs Up

Walk Hard (Rated R).
Quick Thought: I can confidently say it’s the worst movie I’ve ever seen.
Best Scene: None. I’m embarrassed by the fact that I didn’t walk out!
Review: Thumbs Down

No Country For Old Men (Rated R)
Quick Thought: Great story told much too slowly. Terrible ending.
Best Scene: Every Tommy Lee Jones scene
Review: Sideways thumb

Weekend Wrap Up

Kurt on January 7th, 2008

Lesson Topic: Week One of our Series: It’s Okay To Be Short
Attendance: Above Average
‘Fun Factor’: Above Average
Volunteer Involvement: Average
Music: Average
Lesson Quality: Average
Length of Lesson: 22 mins
Student Response: Above Average

Our ‘It’s Okay To Be Short’ Series is taking a look at two of the shortest books in the Bible, Philemon and 3rd John. We shortened our games, shortened our songs, shortened our announcements etc. to try to set the stage (I’m not sure students totally got the connection, but it was a fun effort…). It was our first weekend back to a ‘normal’ junior high program since before Christmas so that alone felt great!

90 Good Minutes

Kurt on January 4th, 2008

We just got out of an all staff meeting with Pastor Rick. We don’t usually have staff meetings on Fridays, but since we’ve been a bit scattered throughout the holidays, I think he just wanted to re-connect. It was awesome. There was no agenda; we simply sang some worship songs and then Rick opened up the discussion to anything anybody wanted to talk about. For the next 90 minutes or so Rick talked off the cuff about the various topics we brought up:
- Politics
- Separation of Church and State
- Systematic Theology
- Church History
- The current situation in Kenya
- Saddleback’s path into the future
- and several other topics raised by our staff

It was really good stuff…I could have sat there for another 90 minutes

Random Randomness

Kurt on January 2nd, 2008

Lots going on in my life and in my head:

- I was really sad to see Hawaii get trampled by Georgia. Unfortunatley they proved the critics right…that maybe they simply didn’t belong in a game with the big boys.

- My daughter and I head to Kenya on January 22 so obviously I’m keeping a close eye on the political unrest facing the country.

- Our high school Pastor has accepted a position at a great church in Florida. This means big changes for us as we head into a new season in our youth ministry.

- For Christmas, I bought my wife Season 3 of The Office. Man, it’s funny stuff.

- Sitting in the airport right now on my way to Akron, Ohio to teach a one day college class on junior high ministry. I’ll be back in my own bed by midnight tomorrow night.

- Standard Publishing has asked me to update my junior high ministry book ‘Controlled Chaos’. It was written in 2000 and surprisingly there hasn’t been another significant junior high ministry book released since.

- Along the same lines, GROUP Publishing is taking a bunch of my junior high ministry columns and turning them into a ‘best of’ book. It won’t be a comprehensive look at junior high ministry, but rather a whole bunch of unrelated essays on the topic. I think the best part of this book is that they’ve asked Scott Rubin, the junior high Pastor at Willow Creek, to write comentary to each essay. I think this is set to release in February.

- We’re getting ready to kick off a fun series in our ministry: “It’s Okay To Be Short” will look at the two shortest books in the Bible.

- My wife and I were talking the the other day when the reality finally hit us that we only have about 4 years until our oldest child heads off to college; that our ‘window’ with her is beginning to creep shut.

- That also means I only have about 4 years until I’m in my mid forties….I guess my window is creeping shut, too!

Christmas and New Year

Kurt on December 26th, 2007

I’m posting from our rented RV camping in the middle of the desert at a place called Ocatillo Wells. Each year for the week in between Christmas and New Year we head out here with several other families to ride dirt bikes.

Three of us happen to be youth pastors and we try really hard not to talk shop for the entire trip although I already ruined it by asking a programming question of one of my friends. Even though it’s a riding the trip, that is only a small part of the fun. We spend a ton of time just sitting around doing nothing which is fantastic. We throw things, launch thing into the air, light things on fire…..all the usual stuff, which is always followed by me reminding my 10-year-old son how dangerous it is. Cole’s highlight is when families toss their old christmas trees into the bon fire which makes a blazing inferno the likes of which he only sees once a year.

As I sit here on my laptop (I’m not actually sitting on my laptop, but you know what I mean), my son is playing his Nintendo DS, and my daughter is listening to her Ipod and checking text messages. Not sure I can really call this camping.