Wanna Write A Story?

Kurt on January 30th, 2008

I’ve already asked a few of my friends for their contributions, but wanted to toss an invite to

Here’s the deal….

Standard Publishing is updating/revising/re-distributing Controlled Chaos, a junior high ministry book I wrote about 8 years ago, and one thing we wanted to add was a ‘Stories From The Trenches’ feature. The hope is to get about 8-10 junior high pastors to write a 400-500 word true-life junior high ministry story. It can be funny, serious or ????. At the end you would just need to write a little practical application or ‘takeaway’. Unfortunately I can’t pay you for this, but I’d love to give you the chance to contribute if you’d like.

Details:
Length: 400-500 words
Deadline: February 15th
Send to: Kurt@saddleback.net include your name and name of your church.

You won’t get your story back, and there is only room for about 10 stories. You won’t get paid, but you will get your story published in a book which is kinda cool!

Well Hidden

Kurt on January 29th, 2008

Two weeks ago as part of our “Scarred” kick-off, we gave students the opportunity to anonymously share some of their hurts. To be honest, I went into it a little bit naively. Because our students come from upper middle-class families, are well provided for, go to great schools etc. it’s dangerously easy to be lulled into thinking they don’t face the same struggles other young teens do.

I was shocked back into reality as I read some of the responses. We simply asked students to write on a card:
“My Scar is _________________ and I deal with it by ______________.”

The amount of kids dealing with (or not dealing with)significant emotional hurts was overwhelming. They hide it so well, but by scratching just a little below the surface we gave students the opportunity to reveal some painful truths. Plus, we were able to point kids to our fantastic 13 week program that helps students work through their hurts.

May God grant us all the ability to recognize hurting kids and the wisdom to help them navigate their pain in a way that brings healing.

Weekend Wrap Up

Kurt on January 28th, 2008

Lesson Topic: Week Two of our Series: SCARRED…Life Hurts; God Heals
Attendance: Average
‘Fun Factor’: Average
Volunteer Involvement: Average
Music: Below Average
Lesson Quality: Above Average
Length of Lesson: 25 mins
Student Response: Above Average

It was an interesting weekend for us. Bad weather, a bunch of our kids away on a missions trip, two out of our four worship songs were new (which is what contributes to the ‘below average’ ranking…poor participation, not poor quality), the games were sub-par etc. BUT, the lesson was amazing, we had a couple of fun videos and there was good energy. I really think the subject matter of this series is what is setting it apart from so many and why the weekends are being received so well by our kids.

I’m No Hannah Montana Fan, But…

Kurt on January 25th, 2008

this is taking it a bit too far!

VoluntE.E.E.rs

Kurt on January 24th, 2008

Not too long ago I was asked to jot down a few simple thoughts about youth ministry volunteers; specifically what to do with them.

If you’re like most people, including myself, when presented with the “What to do with volunteers” question your mind may quickly start making a list of all the “things” your volunteers can do in your ministry…the various roles, tasks etc. that need doing.

But, when I thought about it a bit longer I landed on three big-picture things professional youth workers should be doing with their volunteers. Three things that, I believe, will yield longer term fruit than simply giving them tasks.

EMPOWER: Don’t just give them tasks, but empower them to own significant chunks of your ministry.

EQUIP: Empowerment is great, but not if volunteers don’t feel equipped and trained to do the stuff they have been empowered to do.

ENCOURAGE: I’ve never lost a volunteer from my team because he/she felt too encouraged! I have, however, lost several because they felt under-appreciated.

Wanna Join Our Team?

Kurt on January 23rd, 2008

Our junior high ministry here at Saddleback has a couple of openings for college graduates interested in a two-year internship. We’ve had lots of interns on our team over the past several years and I think it has always proved to be a “Win-Win”.

We win because we get an additional full-time member on our team for a couple of years.
Interns win because they get invaluable experience to take with them to their next ministry setting.
We all win because we get to share life and build lasting friendships.

If you’re interested email our intern director, Jana Sarti, at Janas@saddleback.net

Random Randomness

Kurt on January 22nd, 2008

- Today I was supposed to leave for Kenya with some of our youth ministry team, my daughter and another 8th grade student. Unfortunately we decided it was best to cancel the trip due to the political unrest. The area we were to go is one of the areas most affected by the turmoil. I’m really sad because the timing seemed perfect, the team was great and I was excited to see how God was going to use us.

- Both my kids seem to really enjoy writing. My daughter has been faithfully blogging for close to a year and my 10-year-old son, Cole, just talked us into letting him begin as well. I’m interested to see if he sticks to it. So far, he’s posted every day.

- If you live in Southern California or Arizona and are looking for a great event for your junior highers, I recommend Jr. High Believe that is held in Palm Springs in March. I happen to be speaking there this year so it may be the year to skip! They host numerous weekends all around the country, and really do put on a great 24-hour event for young teens. It’s cheap, fun, spiritually challenging, easy and created specifically for junior high students. It may be worth considering for a future retreat.

- Relevant Books has a pretty cool little line called The Foundation of Faith series that has shortened, pocket-sized versions of some great reads. Currently I’m reading Thomas a Kempis’ classic, The Imitation of Christ. Good stuff.

Weekend Wrap Up

Kurt on January 21st, 2008

Lesson Topic: Week One of our Series: SCARRED…Life Hurts; God Heals
Attendance: Above Average
‘Fun Factor’: Above Average
Volunteer Involvement: Above Average
Music: Above Average
Lesson Quality: Above Average
Length of Lesson: 26 mins
Student Response: Above Average

One of our best weekends in a really long time, but for no real particular reason. It was just one of those times when everything seemed to fall into place. Our music was tight, our games were fun, the lesson was engaging and interesting (we are teaching a three-week series on how to properly deal with hurts)….A great weekend.

Wicked Awesome

Kurt on January 17th, 2008

Tonight my extended family is heading to Hollywood to see Wicked. It will be the first time for most of us, but the second time for Rachel and Kayla. We decided to keep the kids out of school tomorrow, stay the night in Hollywood and have some family fun tomorrow. I’m not a huge musical fan, which combined with the fact that I don’t like the Wizard of Oz makes me nervous, but everybody who has seen Wicked seems to speak really highly of it so I’m actually looking forward to seeing it for myself. At the very least it will give me some context for the songs on the soundtrack that seem to be playing in my wife’s car constantly. Should be an awesome time.

Planning Retreat

Kurt on January 15th, 2008

As we do at this time each year, our junior high team is heading out for an overnight Summer planning retreat. We’ll spend our time talking PDYM strategy and tweaking job descriptions, planning our Summer events and brainstorming teaching topics based around our Summer theme which is Full Service Summer (sorta a retro gas station/garage look).

We’ll get a lot of work done, but the highlight is simply the fact that we can get away as a team to hang out.