Conviction, Courage and Compassion
My son, Cole, just turned 12 and is getting ready to head into junior high. Lately, I’ve been thinking about the fact that I don’t remember my dad making any real efforts to pro-actively instill certain qualities into me. He was a GREAT guy and led through example in an extraordinary way, but because of his parenting style, I never really had any “man to man” talks with my dad until, well until I was a man myself.
I want to do a better job at that with Cole. And I want to be strategic. As I’ve been thinking about it, I’m landing on three key character traits that I want to help him develop. I’m thinking that these three, for the most part, encompass all the other qualities I think young men need. I’m sure there are holes, but it’s a starting point:
CONVICTION: What do you really believe? What would you “fight” for? What is non-negotiable?
COURAGE: The desire and ability to actually live out your convictions.
COMPASSION: The ability to feel for, love, get along with and embrace people on a different life journey and those with different convictions.
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The book is _The Three Big Questions for a Frantic Family: a leadership fable about restoring sanity to the most important organization in your life_ by Patrick Lencioni. Very easy read, not super long, very insightful, very practical.
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