The Good, The Bad and The Ugly

Kurt on May 20th, 2008

I’ve tried creating “features” in the past but I haven’t had much success being faithful to them, but I’m going to try it again. The Good, The Bad and The Ugly will be a new occasional post in which I’ll feature a good, a bad and an ugly from my ministry.

THE GOOD:

PRIZE WHEEL: We invested a couple hundred bucks for a decent quality spinning prize wheel. It has about 30 slots and each slot has a different prize listed. Instead of constantly buying prizes that we think kids might like (and spending way too much time and money…) we decided to buy a tub full of goofy prizes and let kids spin the wheel to see what they win. Plastic dinosaur, can of corn, rubber spatula, pair of socks etc. are all on the wheel and ready to be won. Students totally love it.

THE BAD:

WEEKEND FOLLOW UP: Man, we just can’t seem to get this one right. I really want to do a better job of following up on students who attend our weekend program, but I have an aversion to mandated check in systems. The result: really poor follow up! Because we don’t take it seriously, we simply aren’t following up on students the way we should. I have to figure this one out…probably just sucking it up and creating a mandatory check-in of some sort.

THE UGLY:

VOLUNTEER DISILLUSIONMENT:

Had a tough meeting with a key volunteer in our ministry the other day. We mad a major decision that effected this particular volunteer significantly. While it was the right decision, his response made it clear that the process by which we made it was flawed. Flawed to the point that a significant level of trust was broken and I wanted to own our part in the process. It was one of those long, uncomfortable conversations that you hate to have but know you need to have.

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  3. Really Sad
  4. Systematic Relationships
  5. Weekend Wrap Up
Brian LaRue at 9:55am May 20

Thanks for the post, I love the honesty and transparency it brings about something we all need to focus on…

God thanks for the blessings(Good)
God help me, give direction(Bad)
God heal me or the situation(Ugly)

Mike Collins at 8:43am May 29

You reminded me that bigger youth ministry is not easier youth ministry. We’ve hit a few of the same snags as you mentioned in your post and I was feeling bad about it.

Our volunteers and staff have been working really hard to ‘close the back door’ of our ministry. We have 20 or so brand new visitors at each service, but rarely follow up well. We don’t use an automated check in either…yet.

I’m still wrestling with the pros and the cons. Why don’t you use one?