Remember; I’m No Theologian…
…but I got to chewing on something yesterday. I don’t even know why, actually.
Question to myself: Is my need for encouragement the result of my sin nature?
My first response: Yes, I think it probably is. Without sin I would be in perfect standing with God and my sense of worth etc. would be completely fulfilled. The only reason I need someone to say, ‘good job’ is because I am afraid, insecure and mindful that I may do a poor job. Fear, insecurities and doing a poor job are, I think, the result of my sin nature.
Then I thought: The Bible has several passages reminding us of the importance of encouragement and challenging us to encourage one another. Barnabus, is held up as a crucial leader in the early church primarily because of his encouraging nature.
And then I thought: Why would God want us doing something that seemingly only serves to feed our sin nature? But, obviously, encouraging one another is a biblical principle…so maybe HOW we encourage each other is the issue.
And then….well right about then I stopped thinking, put my headphones back on and turned Johny Cash up real loud.
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Katie…My hunch is because it’s easier and less messy. I like the verse in Proverbs that says “The wounds of a friend bring healing.” This must mean that part of the job of a friend or accountability partner is to encourage in areas that hurt, but ultimately help us grow in our walk.

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I’m no theologian ethier…
I agree with you that it must be the “How” of encouraging that is the issue. Whenever we read about encouraging in the Bible it seems to focus on reminding others or holding others accountable in their walk with the Lord and focusing on Him and His returning. It’s not so much telling someone they are doing a good job or reassuring them that they are affective or loved.